Should I Give My Kid Their Inheritance Before I Die?

Some wealthy people have publicly declared their intention to give away their wealth before they die to see their philanthropy's impact. However, these people usually don’t have to worry about making ends meet, unexpected medical bills, or expensive home repairs. A recent article, “How to Give an Inheritance While You’re Alive,” from Kiplinger, agrees that more than half of Americans in their 60s will need long-term care services at some point. Don’t rush to give away your kid’s inheritance just yet.

For most people, the solution is transferring wealth through estate planning, using a last will and testament. You won’t need the assets after death; your loved ones will be grateful for the bequest.

However, there are some downsides to hanging on to all of your assets while you’re living. If you’re lucky enough to live into your nineties, your “kids” may be in their sixties or seventies when you die. Their need for help with a deposit to buy a home will be long past.

It’s heart-warming to be able to help your family when they can use the help. You get to see how your hard work has helped the next generation. If you’re involved in charitable causes, a donation while you are living allows you to see the impact of your own giving.

Giving with warm hands or while living isn’t possible for everyone. If you think it might be possible, start by crunching the numbers. How much can you really afford to give away? You’ll need to be very intentional about planning. Just deciding to cut back on spending won’t be enough.

Your estate planning attorney may talk with you about using trusts. Creating and funding a trust means lowering your taxable estate, creating more wealth to pass onto heirs and, if you wish, having the trust distribute assets while you’re living. If you use a living trust, you will be able to change the terms whenever you want. Therefore, if it becomes clear you will need the money, you have access to it.

You’ll also need to determine if you have enough funds to pay for long-term care or if you need to begin planning for Medicaid eligibility. A living trust is countable as an asset for Medicaid. However, a Medicaid Asset Protection Trust is not. Your estate planning attorney will help you plan this out.

Home equity is something Boomers, in particular, should consider when considering paying for long-term care. The proceeds from the sale of your home could cover the cost of long-term care. Another option is taking out a reverse mortgage, which lets you enjoy the equity in your home without selling the property.

In 2024, taxpayers may gift up to $18,000 to as many people as they want without incurring gift taxes or filing a gift tax return. Married couples may give up to $36,000 to as many people as they wish. If this might work with your retirement finances, it’s a good way to reduce your estate tax burden.

There are many strategies for making gifts while you’re living. Take a clear, objective look at how much you’ll need to enjoy your retirement years before making any big decisions. Talk with your estate planning attorney about how to make this happen. Congratulations—you’ll get to see your legacy in action if it's something you can realistically do.

Giving while you’re alive can be rewarding, but it’s important to plan carefully. At The Werner Law Firm, our trust lawyers can guide you through the process of creating trusts or gifting strategies that align with your retirement goals, ensuring your wealth benefits loved ones while still securing your future.

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Reference: Kiplinger (September 1, 2024) “How to Give an Inheritance While You’re Alive”